First time with a gay man

This is the story of my first time and, as many first times on anything, it didn't´t go well because of my inexperience. Please share the details in the comments section or, even better, contact me about submitting your story as a guest post.

As a gay man, you may be surprised to hear that one of the biggest hurdles I faced was going into a gay bar for the first time. By the time I reached my 19th birthday, I already had what I had considered a boyfriend.

NOW I am a 17 year old guy and have not yet had my first gay experience. I accepted the fact that I am bisexual at a very early age. Celebrating Pride month. Even though curiosity ran through our minds about what was on the other side of the doors to the gay bar, our bodies remained fixed to our seats while we continued peering at figures entering and exiting the bar.

At years-old, I was in awe of my straight mates. Growing up I noticed that I had an attraction for men and women. Have you ever been terrified to do something or go somewhere for the first time? Six years later, as I made my way on a coach to a new life, I left behind a boyfriend who had been secretly sleeping with another man he worked with.

Holding hands with him, we listened to the patter of the rain on the roof as we watched the raindrops splatter on the windscreen. Trigger. When was the last time you were rendered speechless? At 17 years old, my straight mates were not only getting drunk most Friday and Saturday nights but were boasting about sleeping around with members of the opposite sex without any worry.

A bisexual’s first time gay -adjacent story may involve same-gender intimacy after years of opposite-gender dating, sparking both liberation and community skepticism. THIS HAPPENED TO ME/SEX/LGBT My First Same-Sex Sexual Encounter Was Painful and Unsatisfying I was a young man navigating my sexual orientation; I had no idea what I was getting into.

Here are queer romantic stories spanning 50 years of first encounters. Instead, we both sat there trying our best to peer through the spattering of rain, trying to make out the figures going into the bar. Is brock ciarlelli gay any red-blooded male at 17, my hormones made my brain think of little else but wanting to putting it mildly get laid.

The law stated that, for my safety, sex remained on hold until I reached Of course, I overlooked that particular part of the law. For the next half an hour, we made an excuse after an excuse as to why we should stay in the car.

Hiding who we were and how we lived our lives seemed a much safer option. At 17 years old, it was against the law for me to sleep with a person of the same sex. Not only did those words cut me in half, but I began to worry that if the police raided the bar, my boyfriend and I would be in serious trouble because of my age.

However, neither of us wanted to get out of the car and walk up the steps to the bar. The bar was out of town and miles from where we lived. Many say they knew they were gay their whole lives, not my case. Then you may also enjoy….

If I boasted about it, I could get myself into trouble. Terrified of the consequences of entering a world where people would have welcomed and accepted us for who we were, we drove off and went home. He was over the age of 21 and thought I was too.

How did your first gay experience happen? Did you enjoy reading this post? I have been with maanny women though.